Qualities To Look For In A Husband || Lessons From Boaz

Dear brothers and sisters, I dug into Ruth’s story today and saw Boaz and smiled. I thought to share qualities we learnt from Boaz in The women at the well Bible study collection book today. ** Note that this is an excerpt from the book and you can get the book by mailing 4thewomenatthewell@gmail.com Okay, here goes:   BOAZ (Ruth’s Husband) Most women want a Boaz and rightly so. Who wouldn’t want a man with no description of his physical attributes, but one whose inner attributes makes every woman swoon? […]

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Lessons From When I Almost Dated An Engaged Man Part 3

September 9th was supposed to be my friend, Henry’s birthday, if he were to be alive. And I have tried to avoid putting up this post. I was at Akure like I mentioned in yesterday’s post… uhm, yes there was a post yesterday, I uploaded it after the scheduled time emails are supposed to go out, so email notifications weren’t sent. Tis on #WalkingInPurpose so you really need to go on and click here to read.   Like I was saying, I used the time at Akure to steal a […]

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What To Do When The One You Preach To About Godly Relationships Gets Married Before You

Dear single ladies, I am currently very tired as I type this – the kind of tiredness that makes you too tired to sleep – the kind of tiredness that comes from organizing a seminar in a secondary school, what with shouting and calming students down. Yes, I held an #AwakeningYouths event yesterday, more gist about it on thursday. I would have loved to not just send this letter to you but it’s one that I know that I have to write, what with words just rolling around inside me […]

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Thanking The Lord For Almost Relationships that Never Saw The Light Of Day

Dear single ladies and gentlemen, I’m so sorry that today’s letter’s coming to you a bit late, I have had a whirlwind of a day today. I wanted to spend my day on the hill alone but ended up having 3fellow corpers coming along for the ride. Talk about a total burst of the “alone bubble” but it’s been fun. I had lots of lessons on relationships that God has been teaching me to write to you about today but as usual, I always love to write about the one […]

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Let’s Talk About Purposeful Relationships

Hello everybody! How’s your week been so far? You don’t wanna know how mine has been, but all I will say is that I’ve got time on my hands, enough to yearn for a week of just writing, blogging, traveling and sightseeing another African country(story for another day) 🙂   A friend of mine who just started her blog wrote a blog post about being single/married this week. You can read the post here but the gist of it all is basically whether any other relationship status exists apart from […]

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Brother S: Overcoming Sexual Immorality

Dear Lovers of Frances’s Love Letters, I hope that you are strong in spirit, soul and body? It seems like such a long time since we had a moment together but it was just last week we had the last post on the #ChastityForMen series. Today’s article on the #ChastityForMen series is written by a brother I admire and respect and if you know him personally, you’ll agree with me that he is a man that God has worked on his heart. But you won’t get to know him as he […]

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Who Gave You That List?

Dear single ladies and men, How was your week? Stressful? Busy? Well, today’s saturday, you can chillax by starting out with Frances’s love letters 🙂   Something happened to me on Valentine’s day when I went for the dinner at church and I didn’t tell you about it in my last letter.   I saw someone and started analyzing the person(nor be say he approach me oh, what a laugh) I thought to myself – “no, he can’t be the one na, he is too skinny, he looks too soft, […]

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Lessons From When I Almost Dated An Engaged Man Part 2

Dear All…   My friend died. My friend… the engaged friend I wrote about the lessons learnt from our friendship died. He was killed. He was killed by his own wife. Stabbed in the neck by the one he married.   I wish I could say that it’s a joke. I wish he would call me and tell me “Frances eh, they were just pulling your legs”.   I re-read our whatsapp messages and I dial his number…wishing it will ring. Wishing I will hear his voice saying “you are […]

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Waiting For The One…

Dear single ladies and men, Hopefully, you are as strong in body as you are in your soul.   Remember the last letter I wrote to you on lessons learnt from when I almost dated an engaged man? It would seem like a torrent full of men was rained down on me after that post. I sat one day and got thinking… Is it any wonder that some godly women and men settle for less than God’s best for them? The number of wrong toasters who come our way is […]

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Lessons From When I Almost Dated An Engaged Man

Dear single ladies, How una dey? I hope you are not that shocked about the title up there? If you are, then there maybe need for you to read our about blog page here. We are imperfectly perfect lives remember? My own human frailties is as bad as yours, it is only by God’s grace that they are overcome and I am renewed from the inside out.   The story you are about to read is true, real and I will be as sincere with this as I was with […]

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Drop The Baggage…

Dear Single ladies and gentlemen, This is my first love letter to you for the year 2015 and I am excited. I am excited to see just how much insight and revelation God gives to us on godly relationships. I am excited to see just how much we are all inspired to take the back seat and let God write our love story. It is my prayer that in this 2015, God will teach us, guide us and lead us away from incidents on matters of the heart that aren’t […]

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