Weddings: A Tool For Evangelism

Dear brothers and sisters, Once upon a long time ago I used to be a wedding crasher. My ears used to tingle at the sound of WE to the DDING!! And as soon as I heard that one of my secondary school classmate was getting married, I stormed the day, whether I was invited or not. The last few years has seen my interest in weddings all but die a natural death. Suddenly, I would much rather sleep in than […]

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25, Single And Deriliously Happy

So technically, I am not 25 yet. I will be 25 in September but I am also not quite 24 right? And 25 just sounds better even though I am wondering how I am 25 so soon! I still remember when I was 16! I was going to base today’s letter on something else but I just got up from my prayer time (I am writing this at 01:51am. (Yes Black I see you  snickering at me, I don’t have […]

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A.J BLACK: BUT WHY ARE YOU SO PICKY ABOUT CHOOSING A WIFE?

To understand where this is coming from, please read “But why are you so picky about choosing a husband” HERE This is from one of our blog fam Black who I all but harassed to write this (sorry). For our men – the men who wanna do marriage God’s way, I hope this  helps you stand against the flow of the world’s tide. Even I, a lady learned a lot from this. May God give us the gifts of a […]

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But Why Are You So Picky About Choosing A Husband?

Dear Single Ladies And Gentlemen, I remember having an argument with some guys when I was at Nigerian Law School. I had said that I will not accept a man who would cheat on me and I believe that God won’t give me that kind of man and I was told to “go find that kain man na”. I wasn’t a new believer per say but I also really didn’t have totally strong convictions in God then. I was easily […]

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The Struggle Between Letting Go (Of That Guy/Girl) And Letting God

My dear single ladies and gentlemen, I remember that day or rather those days so clearly. Those days of wondering whether I was supposed to leave the relationship I was in or not. You see, I wanted a new life; I wanted a different life, one better than the one which I had. I didn’t know how to get it except to go back to God – the One  I had no intimate knowledge of but simply knew He was […]

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Hope For Those From Divorced And Damaged Homes

Dear Single Ladies and Gentlemen, I feel the need to encourage those of us from messed-up homes today. You know, recently I have been feeling tugged on by God to hold a series of relationship, courtship and marriage events wrapped up in line with “Prayers for your future husband”. In fact, our next conference from “The women at the well” will be based on relationships and marriage. And my first response to God was to say that “Lord you know that […]

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Why You Should Pray For Your Future Husband

When I was at Nigerian Law School in the year 2014, I had a roommate whose call to my sister on her 17th birthday included prayers for her future husband. I stood listening to the conversation and at the end of the call I jokingly remarked that “my sister is just 17!” Her reply was classic; she said “we are supposed to start praying for our marriage and husbands right from childhood, this is even late” (paraphrased). Today, 3 years […]

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Ruby Suze: I Like Sex But I Love Intimacy More

Let me just let something out of the bag – I like sex but, I love intimacy. I don’t ever get a ‘headache’ and rarely am I ‘tired’. My husband is a very lucky man. Let me tell you why… Chatting with my best friend one day, she told me that she wants her husband to be her best friend. I rolled my eyes. Like that big time eye roll. The kind where your eyes almost detach themselves from the […]

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Will God Make Me Marry Someone I Am Not Attracted To?

NOTE: This is a sneak peek from the women at the well upcoming book. The book is a collection of studies that include: -The List -Becoming God’s own kind of woman -Marriage God’s way -The character of a godly woman Pre-order on or before February 4th 2017 and also get Frances’ book “Prayers for your future husband” as a free ebook! All for 1500Naira! To pre-order mail 4thewomenatthewell@gmail.com for our treasurer’s account number to be sent to you. Hurry! The […]

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Let’s Talk About Breaking Soul Ties

Dear Single ladies and gentlemen, I don’t think that I have ever told you guys about the journey to being free from the boyfriend with whom I had the whole abortion deal with (trust me even I sometimes I am tired of my story, I go “Lord again??” But it seems like the Lord wants to use me as a guinea pig to help others and that’s fine, so far as it helps). Leaving that relationship was such a struggle. […]

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The Truth About Sexual Sin

I was at a speaking engagement last week where God showed Himself in great ways and left me wondering about “what just happened!” I didn’t even intend to speak on anything, I was just going to share on my book “10 steps to walking in purpose”, but then when I think that my heart is tilting more towards money, I ask the Lord to help me see through His eyes. So yes, I went with my books but with an […]

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