Dear 24 Year Old Frances…

Dear 24 year old Frances, Jesus is your anchor. Hold onto Him. Every other good thing will come. In due time.   Love, Me. Frances Okoro Hi there! I’m Frances Okoro. Lawyer, Author, Speaker and Social Entrepreneur who uses her gift of writing on here to draw lives to Jesus. I hope something on the blog blesses you and draws you even closer to Him. http://www.imperfectlyperfectlives.com

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My Body Count For The Year 2016

Body Count Means how many people you had sex with -Urbandictionary.com ******** My dear single ladies and gentlemen, I always have a smile on my face anytime I write to you all… I don’t know, it just gladdens my heart to be on here on Saturdays. You know Frances’ Love Letters started here with me scribbling love notes to Daddy at night – just thoughts from my heart to God regarding love that found their way to the blog. Then I realized that I actually have a passion to see God kind of marriages and homes and that’s why I write letters here each Saturday. I pray God waters the seeds that are being sown here in Jesus name, amen. […]

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Frances’ Travelogue || Chronicles Of My Trip To Badagry, Lagos Nigeria

Aha! Hi guys! I hope you all winding down the year all good?   Okay, so I had this trip a loooong time ago but na today body do me to share the Chronicles on it. I didn’t do a lot of trips this year, kind of laid low on sight seeing things, hopefully next year will be better (or this year? a surprise trip? Amen).   Let’s get down to all the deets from that day..     So I and my sister Amaka of www.amakamedia.com set out for the long anticipated trip on a Tuesday. Yes, when people were going to work we were going to have fun. We had planned the trip for months but one thing […]

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Love Never Fails

One of the ways to describe my brother after he just gave his life to Christ is “annoying”! Lol. I don’t know, but he mega used to get on my nerves! I would invite him for Wednesday service and he would be dragging his feet. There was even a day I invited him to go to Church after work, I was kind of broke and didn’t have a lot so I stayed home… and I thought I was doing good. Ehen, that was the period I wasn’t fine, I had malaria and was terribly weak. But remembered my brother and told him to go to Church, only for this guy to turn around and start saying stuff that had me […]

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The 1 Peter 3:1 Kinda Woman || On Submission

Hi hi hi hi sisters! This post has been a long time coming. I mentioned in the Ephesians 5:25 man post that I was going to share on this the next week. Well, that next week is three weeks after. I have had a full past three weekends. The very next next week was TWTW Meet, then Gbile Akanni’s retreat I went for. etc. etc. Lesson? I will no longer make promises about posts. Since my Blackberry – my handy phone for typing is gone, keeping promises about writing what with light issues and laptop issues is a chore. But things are getting better! Amen. And I am here today so that counts for something huh? Let’s get right into […]

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The Parable Of The Growing Seed

“Jesus also said, “The Kingdom of God is like a farmer who scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, while he’s asleep or awake, the seed sprouts and grows, but he does not understand how it happens. The earth produces the crops on its own. First a leaf blade pushes through, then the heads of wheat are formed, and finally the grain ripens. And as soon as the grain is ready, the farmer comes and harvests it with a sickle, for the harvest time has come.” -Mark 4:26-29   Something caught my attention as I read the last post on the Maximizing Your Potential Series. We dealt with “enlargement in the waiting” (You have to read that post to […]

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Introducing: ‘Where Are The Men’ Series

This entry is part 1 of 5 in the series Where are the men series

This entry is part 1 of 5 in the series Where are the men seriesI am currently working (or trying to work) on my fourth book “Prayers For Your Future Husband (Spirit Led Prayers For The One Whose Name You Don’t Know)’. It will be out God willing in January 2017, as a gift along with our The Women At The Well first book (all ladies, you should absolutely pre-order this package HERE, would be just such a blessing). It is a book that I probably had written ever since June 2016 or so. I wrote it all behind a jotter as I prayed one night. I suddenly had a burden one night to pray for my future husband – from […]

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From My Diary: Thank You

Dear Daddy, My heart is so full, I don’t even know what to say…all I can do is smile. You are such a blessing. The blessing Himself. Thank You for loving me. Thank You for making me Your own. Thank You for this year. Oh its almost all gone now but still you say that You crown the year with your goodness..meaning that there’s still a lot in store for this month. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. We quarrel oh.. I know.. even the angels will be saying that I cry too much. Lol. But you already know nah.. you made me. And something tells me you enjoy me pouring out to you […]

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Maximizing Your Potential Series || Enlargement In The Waiting

“That is why waiting does not diminish us, any more than waiting diminishes a pregnant mother. WE ARE ENLARGED IN THE WAITING. We, of course, don’t see what is enlarging us.  But the longer we wait, the larger we become, and the more joyful our expectancy.” -Romans 8:24&25, MSG   I asked God about “process” in the Kingdom yesterday and what He had to say was enlightening. I had seen someone who just wrote a book and the book was sold out at the book launch – with as much as 10,000 likes on Instagram. And thankfully, I wasn’t asking in envy this time (thank God, the Spirit has been working on this) but I really just wanted to know. […]

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