Preparation On How To Be A Wife 101 Series (The End)

…Or its not quite the end… The preparation continues till God brings us into the marital season of our lives. But for now, here on the blog, we are done. It has been an awesome two months on here, filming videos and trying to share on some areas of preparation on how to be a wife that God laid in my heart. And I have not just shared, I have also been drilled and taught all the way. Yes, somehow I was the one sharing the words, but I was also living the words and I am still living the words I shared (seeing as I am still a single girl who God takes delight in drilling lessons into her […]

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Why You Should Attend The Women At The Well July 2016 Meet!

It’s tomorrow guys! Our single ladies meet is tomorrow! If you still haven’t made up your mind, this will give you many reasons to do so…   Reblogged from www.DistinguishedLives.com… **************   Remember when I wrote about the first TWTW Meet (please click here if you haven’t read it yet), I’m so excited to inform you that there will be another meet soon sooner soonest! The next TWTW Meet comes up 8 days from today – Saturday, 30 July 2016. Who is as excited as I am?!!   Like I said in the First Meet post, TWTW (The Women at The Well) started with about 8 ladies honoring Frances Okoro’s meet up invite on her blog www.imperfectlyperfectlives.com. We were just ladies looking […]

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From My Diary: I Am Still Your Baby

Dear Lord, I have been looking for my camera, my small camera I have been managing for stuff… the last time I used it was two Wednesdays ago. And I just don’t know where it is. I remember the last time I saw it but I think, if it wasn’t with me when I came home, I would have looked for it then right? Anyway, I wanted to just postpone this diary entry because of the way I am feeling BUT I don’t know…what does feelings have to do with it? Coupled with the fact that I was supposed to write this a month ago, so let’s go on, I will write with my broken heart still asking about my […]

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When He Says I Am With You (But Is That Enough For Us?)

I just got back from jogging and I jogged to Todd Dulaney’s “I’ll keep running to you”. It’s an amazing song, one that should make every Christian jump for joy, except you are like me, who is actually going through “either follow people’s opinions or follow God”, and so it would actually make you tear up and almost cry even while in public. I just inexplicably had tears shining in my eyes as I jogged and ruminated on a lot of things.   Firstly I read Gideon’s story at my quiet time this morning and when I asked God for a word, the one that came to heart was “I am with you”. And it just took me back to […]

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Preparation On How To Be A Wife 101 Series|| A Wife As A Lover

Hello ladies! Welcome to another episode on our “Preparation On How To Be A Wife 101 Series”.. and before you run away, today’s going to be both a video and words episode. Yes, I will try to write what was discussed in the video… ****BUT  I am a bit distracted from reading our Bible Study on “The Women At The Well” for this weekend, and you would not believe that we are talking about “Love” right now, the topic is on “Preventing Divorce” sha but somehow it delved into love because lets just agree that the only thing that would keep a marriage is basically the God kind of love. Yes, forgiveness, patience, etc but they are all imbeded in […]

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Prompt Obedience: Do You Obey God Promptly?

Hello blog fam! Welcome to another time on our #OnlineBibleStudy on here… if you are here and eager about filling up with God’s word, I am thankful for you. We don’t take it for granted that our appetites are for the things of God and not the things of the world.   So there is a really funny story about today’s topic… I had this topic in my heart about a year ago when I was serving during NYSC but then it didn’t just feel like the right time to share so I glossed over it. Fast forward to Sunday when I was praying and it just came on that oh “Prompt Obedience” is our study on the blog this […]

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Preparation On How To Be A Wife 101 Series: A Wife As A Maker And Financial Guru

Hi guys! Welcome to another episode on the “Preparation On How To Be A Wife 101 Series!” In today’s episode we would be digging into the lesson that actually started this series. I suddenly had these words from “Proverbs 31” ringing in my head… “she looks well to her own household”. God sure knew that that woman wasn’t me and He wanted me to work on that. SO join us as we delve into lessons on a wife being a homemaker and financial guru and hopefully, you will also allow God work in you as He has been doing in me even right now as a single lady.   And if you are just joining us, make sure to go […]

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LOVE: The Requirement For Every Leader

“The Women At The Well” single ladies group has been on for 8months running so far and though the ladies on the group say that they have been blessed, I think I out of everyone else have been the most drilled by God. By drilling, I mean the removal of stuff from my character, attitude and behaviour… some of these stuffs I didn’t even know were there in the first place.   So I have a bit of a pushful personality… or is that the wrong word? I am very – what’s the word – opinionated and sometimes though I have good intentions, the way I speak/write may make the words come out really pushful or like a “you gotta […]

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On Envy: Why You Need The Holy Spirit’s filter When You Are On Social Media

CONFESSION: I have been hit so seriously by the silly spirit of envy in recent times… so much so that I literally hear the Spirit call my name over and over again as I scroll through posts on Instagram or Facebook. And envy comes so subtly in the words of… See just what she’s doing… How far she has gone… And hope you have heard that I added a bit of weight recently? So also I hear, see her body, and see where you still dey? Or why don’t I get as much comments on my blog? Maybe I am doing something wrong?   And if you happen to be sitting close to me when I am online and you […]

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Preparation On How To Be A Wife 101 Series: A Wife As An Intercessor

Hi guys! Sorry for our break in transmission on here, lots of things have been cutting us short like this post on marital promises I had to do last week but we are back now. Let’s finish up this series for this month of July. I thought no one was interested in this but imagine my surprise when I saw a search term that brought someone to the blog on this particular series. Wowzers. So today we are dealing on a wife as an intercessor. For a bit of recap, we have defined who a wife is… Dealt with “what every single woman should know about marriage”… And then “a wife as a nurturer”… And “a hospitable wife”. You can […]

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Grace Oche: PUSH Conference: My Experience, From Planning To Seeing God At Work

God has been doing something amazing in my life of recent, placing me in the path of people I need to meet/be with. I won’t go into what happened when I went to NYSC camp Ekiti to publicize my NYSC book but then God actually wanted me to meet one person… It was same with meeting Grace. Like I said here, I just felt like gifting her my book on purpose,  and again I just felt like sending her my book on NYSC. Reading her words now, I had no idea what God was doing by leading me to do those things which I thought was normal at the time. I literally had goosebumps when I got to the end […]

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