From My Dairy: Just Because I Never Want To Forget…

*Warning: Explicit details and numbers might be in this post, all really in a bid to bare my heart out to my Daddy who I’m writing to… Erm, you are basically peeping into my conversation with Him… ***************************************** Hiiii Daddy, I was going to write on something else today when a daughter of yours called me last night and we got talking about lessons you are teaching us right now, right here… here where we stand. She also is in a season of waiting and a season where you are drilling lessons into her and that’s my season also… only thing is mine is basically a John the Baptist kind of season. But I could relate with her as we […]

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Help Me: I Am Scared That I Won’t Like God’s Purpose For My Life

I have been meditating a bit on what the words “Christ is risen, He is not here!” means to us (me). I’ve just been turning it over and over in my mind, trying to place my finger on what these life-changing words mean for you and I as believers in Christ Jesus. “I have been crucified with Christ [in Him I have shared His crucifixion]; it is no longer I who live, but Christ (the Messiah) lives in me; and the life I now live in the body I live by faith in (by adherence to and reliance on and complete trust in) the Son of God, Who loved me and gave Himself up for me.” -Galatians 2:20 AMP   […]

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When Your Prayers For A Spouse Becomes An Idol

Dear single ladies and gentlemen, I always have a smile when I type out that salutation to you all… I just love you all you know? Some of you have been reading my letters week in, week out since 2013 and some of you just joined us… I don’t know you all, but writing to you gladdens my heart. I pray that all what God has been teaching us shall not be lost… when the time comes, we shall apply them both in our decisions in choosing a spouse and even in our marriages in Jesus name, amen!   So most of you should already know that we have a single ladies group that sprung up last year. “The Women […]

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From A Man’s Perspective: Is It In The Nature Of All (Christian) Men To Cheat?

Last week we had an amazing guest post from Tosin on the blog centered on the issue of men being promiscuous…Christian men inclusive (click HERE if you missed it) Aj Black one of our amazing (yes I use the word “amazing” a lot) commented on the post and I felt like his words shouldn’t end as a comment alone, and we’d benefit from what he has to say on the issue. A request from me for him to make it into an article, and two emails later, we have his words below… Enjoy and Learn (as I did)…   ************************************ You wrote: “All men were created to cheat. It’s in their nature!” “I think this statement is half true”. Unfortunately […]

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The Fight To Trust Jesus

Hi guys! How has your week been? Awesome yes?   So yesterday I felt pulled on to film a video on “trusting Jesus” as today’s #OnlineBibleStudy but stuff happened and night time fell before I could do so…. I was going to just forget about it even though the pull was intense but then a sister in “the women at the well group” shared an article she had written on trusting God in trials and I was again reminded to get on what I felt tugged on by God to do… its obviously a word in season and needed by someoneout there…   You can watch the video on my Youtube channel here or watch it below.   And if […]

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Help Me: I Don’t Have Helpers In My Walk In Purpose

NOTE: My book “10 Steps to Walking In Purpose” is still up to be won for free by one person for the duration of this series. Simply, retweet this post and comment below indicating your interest for an e-copy. You can purchase the book on konga, Amazon and Okadabooks. Now unto today’s post… **************************************** One of the first things you would hear someone who has been given God’s blueprint for their path in Him say is “who will help me on this path? Who will be my helper?”   And people around the person also don’t help matters as when you share your vision with someone, the first thing they ask you is “who are the members of your team?” […]

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Letter To My Future Husband…

Hiiiiii Baby! I don’t quite know what to call you yet… will it be honey? baby? Or just your name? Uhm, I am not sure, so just sha know that I am writing this letter to you… you… you… you know yourself! 🙂   I wish I can say that I am writing this letter out of the bottom of my heart filled with love but errrr… thats not the case. I am writing out of a warning God’s been laying in my heart for both of us… Soooo Daddy has been giving me little deets on learning to be a woman who will be a blessing to you… Loving you like He loves us… Submitting to you and letting […]

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Tosin Eyebiokin-Olugbade: Are Men Of Virtue All Extinct?

This post dropped into my heart with much soberness, as I had a chat with the girls during a down time. We got talking about a woman who suffered with her hubs, built a life with him but had no children. Then her hubs went out and had children by other women. She in turn, began retaliating by doing lots of evil stuffs…so I heard.   Looking deep into the conversation, I admitted that no woman wants a rival. But once a misdeed is done, it is done. If that woman doesn’t take grace to forgive her husband, she would commit lots of atrocities and in the process offend God.   Before I knew it , the conversation drifted to […]

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Flaming Fire: A Call To #Growth, #Push, #Press!

“Write this letter to the angel of the church in Laodicea.  This is the message from the one who is the Amen—the faithful and true witness, the beginning of God’s new creation: “I know all the things you do, that you are neither hot nor cold. I wish that you were one or the other! But since you are like lukewarm water, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth! You say, ‘I am rich. I have everything I want. I don’t need a thing!’ And you don’t realize that you are wretched and miserable and poor and blind and naked. So I advise you to buy gold from me—gold that has been purified by fire. […]

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Help Me: I Don’t Know My Purpose

Lots of people in today’s world are confused at to what the word “purpose” means for their lives. They’ve grown up to hear almost everyone saying that they have to find their purpose on earth and they really want to do so… their hearts are stirred to know what their God-given assignments are but they just can’t seem to hit the mark… The ever elusive mark of “this and that is what I am meant to do on earth!” My book “10 Steps To Walking In Purpose” deals with a whole lot of steps to take if you want to find and walk in your God-given purpose and I am not going to take us back into that realm. Simply […]

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Join Us As We Pray For Grace To Be Worthy Spouses

My darling single ladies and gentlemen, Every time I skip a week of writing a letter to you it seems like a whole year has passed by… I apologize for the lack of Frances’ Love Letter on here last week… I was at Redeem camp and just couldn’t get back in time to write/publish a post. But it’s all good.   Yesterday after praying for a bit in the morning and telling the Holy Spirit to teach me how to be submissive to my husband… I could feel Him leading me to open up Ephesians 5. Btw, have you guys realized that when you pray in tongues, prayer points that you never could have thought up just start spilling out […]

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