My Take Home Treasures From ‘Return To Your First husband’ Port Harcourt Ladies Event By Goodness Weme-Mercy

Share this on WhatsAppSo I started hearing ‘when God writes your love story’ since late last year and it didn’t really dawn on my that this was it until the week of the programme. I know this is just the beginning cos God still have more in store for me concerning this matter, He wants me to know that He alone can write the perfect love story for me but first I must return to my first husband. We had a panel discussion on ‘sex and the single lady’ that refused to end (lol) with the ladies baring their hearts out and I learnt so much from the discussion which I’ve listed below: 1) Have a prayer altar: This point […]

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Life Lately: Lessons, Trials And Triumph From Our Ladies Event/Book Launch At Port Harcourt

Share this on WhatsAppFirst of all, my new book “Prayers for your future husband” has not been officially launched. Yes. The night before the event we found out that the books were not going to get to Port Harcourt till the next day. I cried. I was frantic. I thought of calling off the event and then I texted my brother… “What’s a book launch without my books..?” His first reply? “Lol, your books? Who told you that the books are yours? Just because your name is on the front cover doesn’t mean that it’s yours. Its HIS. THE BOOKS BELONG TO GOD”. Oh Lord, I thought, again? Why won’t you just let me go? I felt like God wanted […]

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Ruby Suze: I Like Sex But l Love Intimacy More

Share this on WhatsAppLet me just let something out of the bag – I like sex but, I love intimacy. I don’t ever get a ‘headache’ and rarely am I ‘tired’. My husband is a very lucky man. Let me tell you why… Chatting with my best friend one day, she told me that she wants her husband to be her best friend. I rolled my eyes. Like that big time eye roll. The kind where your eyes almost detach themselves from the muscles, hula hoop around your eye socket and return to their original position. You see, I was a ‘Hollywood love’ cynic and as the years went on – my cynicism grew. My experience of men was very […]

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From Port Harcourt To Lagos, We Got You Covered (Events On IPL)

Share this on WhatsAppThere are a few things we are working on in this season that you can be a part of. First of all the ladies event tagged “Return to your first husband” which doubles as my new book “Prayers for your future husband” book launch holds tomorrow in Port Harcourt. Just how we are in Port harcourt is a miracle in itself.   You are all invited. Date: Saturday February 18th 2017 Venue: The children’s Church,. St Matthews Anglican Church, Nkpogwu Deanery. 51 Trans Amadi Rd, Nkpogwu. Time: 11am     For our ladies in Lagos, you are invited to “the women at the well” first meet this year. Theme: Bridging the gap between Naomis and Ruths. We […]

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How To Deal With Pride

Share this on WhatsAppMost people do not know where I am based. I spoke to someone concerning my NGO valentine “Purity walk” yesterday and he said he thought I was in Lagos. I laughed. I have not been in Lagos since November. I was there briefly for TWTW Meet in December and disappeared again. Oh well, I am currently in Delta State (my family is based here) but then again I will be leaving this weekend for Port-harcourt for ‘Prayers for your future husband” book launch and ladies event and it seems like I am to be a nomad for Jesus and that’s okay. From December till now that I have been home, I can be said to be in […]

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Will God Make Me Marry Someone I Am Not Attracted To?

Share this on WhatsAppNOTE: This is a sneak peek from the women at the well upcoming book. The book is a collection of studies that include: -The List -Becoming God’s own kind of woman -Marriage God’s way -The character of a godly woman Pre-order on or before February 4th 2017 and also get Frances’ book “Prayers for your future husband” as a free ebook! All for 1500Naira! To pre-order mail 4thewomenatthewell@gmail.com for our treasurer’s account number to be sent to you. Hurry! The price reverts to normal price of 2000 Naira after today. **********************************************************************   CHAPTER 6 WILL GOD MAKE ME MARRY SOMEONE I’M NOT ATTRACTED TO? First of all, we must understand that God doesn’t force anything or anyone […]

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Join AYSCNIGERIA Purity Walk This Valentine (Volunteers Needed)

Share this on WhatsApp Hi everyone, My name is Frances Okoro I am a Lawyer, author, Christian blogger and Social Entrepreneur.   I am the founder of Awakening Youthful Seeds For Christ Initiative (AYSCNIGERIA) an NGO that is focused on three main areas: Purpose, Purity and Growth. This Valentine, we want to sensitize young girls on the need to abstain from sex and all attendant sexual vices till marriage.   Contrary to the literal meaning of “walk”, we aim for the “purity walk” to be a way of life. To this end, what “walk” means here is that we are committing to speak to girls this valentine on “purity”. We are aiming for as much as a 100 girls to […]

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The Helper Of Israel (Frances)

Share this on WhatsAppThe Helper of Israel “Be silent before me, you islands! Let the nations renew their strength! Let them come forward and speak; let us meet together at the place of judgment.  “Who has stirred up one from the east, calling him in righteousness to his service? He hands nations over to him and subdues kings before him. He turns them to dust with his sword, to windblown chaff with his bow. He pursues them and moves on unscathed, by a path his feet have not traveled before. Who has done this and carried it through, calling forth the generations from the beginning? I, the Lord—with the first of them and with the last—I am he.” -Isaiah 41:1-4 When I read […]

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WATM Series || The Power Of A Praying Man + Giveaway For Men

This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Where are the men series

Share this on WhatsAppSince I am writing a book on Prayer and Prayers for your future husband at that, I have found myself thinking about “the man” sometimes. Some people might argue “Frances, why are you writing a book on prayers for our future husbands, what about the men? If we pray for them, how are we sure that they are praying for us?” This is for the ladies. The truth is we cannot be sure of what the man is doing right at this moment. Who can tell whether he is even born again or not? Maybe it’s even the prayers God is laying on your heart that would open the eyes of his understanding to walk more deeply […]

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Let’s Talk About Breaking Soul Ties

Share this on WhatsAppDear Single ladies and gentlemen, I don’t think that I have ever told you guys about the journey to being free from the boyfriend with whom I had the whole abortion deal with (trust me even I sometimes I am tired of my story, I go “Lord again??” But it seems like the Lord wants to use me as a guinea pig to help others and that’s fine, so far as it helps). Leaving that relationship was such a struggle. We had had so much done together that at first I was scared about how I was going to live alone. The tie was that strong. I remember when I finally had the courage to break the […]

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Where Are Your Souls With Which To Greet Him?

Share this on WhatsAppI was reading a book by Robert Liardon titled “I saw Heaven”. It’s an account of his trip to Heaven when he was 8 years old. And I and my sister got talking about Heaven and how it would be such a joy to meet Jesus, see Jesus physically, laugh with Him and just be with our saviour and Lord. And from there we got talking about our crown. My sister said something like “it’s as if we should just go now ba?” And I said “no, my crown won’t be so large right now, my reward won’t be so great now, I can’t die now”.   We both started talking about Luke 15 where Jesus talks […]

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